Sneak Peek – A Glimpse Inside the Guide

Below is a short preview of how the guide begins, just the first few moments, so you can get a feeling for the tone and rhythm.
Each partner receives their own version: For Him and For Her.
You’ll take turns, discovering connection one step at a time, until both stories meet in the final shared moment.

For Him

Step 1 – Set the scene with the mirror. – For You

Find a big mirror and place it where both of you feel comfortable, the bedroom or living room works best.
Spread a soft blanket or rug on the floor in front of it.
Dim the lights and light one or two candles or a small lamp so the light feels warm and gentle on your skin.

Make sure the mirror is secure and stable, if it’s freestanding, press it against a wall or something solid so it can’t tip over.
Invite her to sit with you in front
of the mirror. You should both see your faces and upper bodies clearly in the reflection.

If you like, bring two drinks, wine, juice, or water, and place them
within reach, away from the mirror or candles.
Take a deep breath together.
Sit close enough to
feel each other’s presence, but not touching yet.
Look at her eyes in the mirror and let the silence settle.
Then smile and say softly,
“Tonight, we’re watching what we feel.”

Keep some lube nearby if you use it

⏱ 2-5 minutes
Goal: Create a calm, inviting space where both of you feel relaxed, safe, and ready to explore.

Step 2 – For Her

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For Her

Step 1 – For Him

Step 2 – Talk about what you see. – For You

Sit upright with your hands resting on your thighs. Take three slow breaths while looking at his face in the mirror.
Stay quiet for a few moments, just notice how it feels to see both of you together like this.

When the moment feels right, ask him softly,

“Do you ever feel any hesitation when you look at yourself like this, or when you see us together in the mirror?”

Listen carefully to his answer. Keep your eyes in the reflection as he speaks. Try to understand what he means, not just what he says.
If he shares something personal, stay curious. Ask gentle follow-up questions. Talk about how it feels for each of you, what’s easy, what’s new, what feels vulnerable.

This step isn’t about fixing anything. It’s about noticing how you both experience being seen.

When the conversation feels complete, take one more slow breath together and smile at his reflection.
Then say quietly, “Your turn.”

⏱ 3-5 minutes
Goal: Build emotional connection and honesty. This step helps both of you feel comfortable being seen and talking openly before any physical touch begins.

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🪞 How the Guide Unfolds

Both versions begin separately, his with setting the scene, hers with reflection and words.
You take turns step by step, each saying “Your turn” as the energy grows.
The moments move from talking to touching, from kisses to full connection.
Everything builds toward Step 17, the shared moment where both stories meet and become one.